WHAT MA63 IS ALL ABOUT?

United Nations - Treaty Series

(MALAY TEXT - TEXT MALAIS)

United Kingdom of Great Britain dan Northern Ireland, Persekutuan Tanah Melayu, Borneo Utara,Sarawak dan Singapura;

Oleh kerana hendak membuat suatu perjanjian berkenaan dengan Malaysia;

Bersetuju saperti di·bawah ini:

Perkara I

Tanah2 Jajahan Borneo Utara dan Sarawak dan Negeri Singapura hendak-lah di-sekutukan dengan Negeri2 Persekutuan Tanah Melayu yang ada sekarang sa-bagai Negeri Sabah, Negeri Sarawak dan Negeri Singapura mengikut surat2 perlembagaan yang di-kembarkan kapada Perjanjian ini dan Persekutuan itu kemudian daripada itu hendak-lah di-namakan « Malaysia ».

Perkara II

Kerajaan Persekutuan Tanah Melayu akan mengambil Iangkah2 yang sesuai dan yang terbuka kapada-nya menentukan bahawa Parlimen Persekutuan Tanah Melayu akan meluluskan suatu Undang2 mengikut chara yang di-tetapkan dalam Kembaran A kapada Perjanjian ini, dan behawa Undang2 itu di-jalankan kuat kuasa-nya pada 31 haribulan Ogos, 1963 (dan tarikh Undang2 tersebut di-jalankan kuat kuasa-nya itu sa-lepas ini di-gelar « Hari Malaysia »).

Perkara III

Kerajaan United Kingdom akan menyembahkan ka-bawah Duli Yang Maha Mulia Baginda Queen sa-belum Hari Malaysia Perentah2 dalam Majlis Meshuarat bagi maksud menguat kuasakan Undang2 Tuboh Kerajaan Negeri2 Sabah, Sarawak dan Singapura sa-bagai Negeri2 di-dalam Malaysia saperti yang di-tetapkan dalam Kembaran2 B, C dan D kapada Perjanjian ini.

Perkara IV

Kerajaan United Kingdom akan mengambil Iangkah2 yang sesuai dan yang terbuka kapada-nya menentukan bahawa Parlimen United Kingdom

THE 20 POINTS

Point 1: Religion
While there was no objection to Islam being the national religion of Malaysia there should be no State religion in North Borneo, and the provisions relating to Islam in the present Constitution of Malaya should not apply to North Borneo.

Point 2: Language
a. Malay should be the national language of the Federation
b. English should continue to be used for a period of 10 years after Malaysia Day
c. English should be an official language of North Borneo for all purposes, State or Federal, without limitation of time.

Point 3: Constitution
Whilst accepting that the present Constitution of the Federation of Malaya should form the basis of the Constitution of Malaysia, the Constitution of Malaysia should be a completely new document drafted and agreed in the light of a free association of states and should not be a series of amendments to a Constitution drafted and agreed by different states in totally different circumstances. A new Constitution for North Borneo (Sabah) was of course essential. .

Point 4: Head of Federation
The Head of State in North Borneo should not be eligible for election as Head of the Federation, but the Ruler or Governors of Sabah and Sarawak shall be members of the Conference of Rulers  its main responsibility is the election of the Yang di-Pertuan Agong.

Point 5: Name of Federation
“Malaysia” but not “Melayu Raya”

Point 6: Immigration
Control over immigration into any part of Malaysia from outside should rest with the Central Government but entry into North Borneo should also require the approval of the State Government. The Federal Government should not be able to veto the entry of persons into North Borneo for State Government purposes except on strictly security grounds. North Borneo should have unfettered control over the movements of persons other than those in Federal Government employ from other parts of Malaysia into North Borneo.

Point 7: Right of Secession
There should be no right to secede from the Federation.

Point 8: Borneanisation
Borneanisation of the public service should proceed as quickly as possible.

Point 9: British Officers
Every effort should be made to encourage British Officers to remain in the public service until their places can be taken by suitably qualified people from North Borneo.

Point 10: Citizenship
The recommendation in paragraph 148(k) of the Report of the Cobbold Commission should govern the citizenship rights in the Federation of North Borneo subject to the following amendments:
a) sub-paragraph (i) should not contain the proviso as to five years residence
b) in order to tie up with our law, sub-paragraph (ii)(a) should read “7 out of 10 years” instead of “8 out of 10 years”
c) sub-paragraph (iii) should not contain any restriction tied to the citizenship of parents – a person born in North Borneo after Malaysia must be federal citizen.

Point 11: Tariffs and Finance
North Borneo should retain control of its own finance, development and tariff, and should have the right to work up its own taxation and to raise loans on its own credit.

Point 12: Special position of indigenous races
In principle the indigenous races of North Borneo should enjoy special rights analogous to those enjoyed by Malays in Malaya, but the present Malaya formula in this regard is not necessarily applicable in North Borneo.

Point 13: State Government
a) the Chief Minister should be elected by unofficial members of Legislative Council
b) There should be a proper Ministerial system in North Borneo.

Point 14: Transitional period
This should be seven years and during such period legislative power must be left with the State of North Borneo by the Constitution and not be merely delegated to the State Government by the Federal Government.

Point 15: Education
The existing educational system of North Borneo should be maintained and for this reason it should be under state control.

Point 16: Constitutional safeguards
No amendment modification or withdrawal of any special safeguard granted to North Borneo should be made by the Central Government without the positive concurrence of the Government of the State of North Borneo.

The power of amending the Constitution of the State of North Borneo should belong exclusively to the people in the state.  (Note: The United Party, The Democratic Party and the Pasok Momogun Party considered that a three-fourth majority would be required in order to effect any amendment to the Federal and State Constitutions whereas the UNKO and USNO considered a two-thirds majority would be sufficient.)

Point 17: Representation in Federal Parliament
This should take account not only of the population of North Borneo but also of its size and potentialities and in any case should not be less than that of Singapore.

Point 18: Name of Head of State
Yang di-Pertua Negara.

Point 19: Name of State
Sabah.

Point 20: Land, Forests, Local Government, etc.
The provisions in the Constitution of the Federation in respect of the powers of the National Land Council should not apply in North Borneo. Likewise, the National Council for Local Government should not apply in North Borneo.

AGENDA BORNEO, MASA DEPAN KITA

UNITED BORNEO FRONT (UBF)

Perjuangan Kita, Masa Depan Kita, Takdir Kita 

UNITED BORNEO FRONT (UBF) atau Barisan Borneo Bersatu adalah Organisasi Bukan Kerajaan (NGO) yang ditubuhkan pada 16 Disember 2010. Berjuang menuntut pengembalian hak-hak rakyat Sabah dan Sarawak, syarat serta jaminan yang tidak ditunaikan sem...asa pembentukan Malaysia melalui Laporan Jawatankuasa Antara-Kerajaan (IGC) 1962 dan Artikel. 8, Perjanjian Malaysia 1963 yang ditanclatangani di London.

UBF telah menggariskan senarai tuntutan dalam satu agenda yang disebut Agenda Borneo. Agenda Borneo dijadikan teras perjuangan rakyat Sabah Sarawak kerana inilah yang menjadi keperluan bahkan menjadi satu jaminan masa depan untuk rakyat dan generasi akan datang.

UBF tidak memihak kepada mana-mana kumpulan politik tetapi mengambil iktibar dari Keputusan Pilihanraya Umum ke-12 di mana ternyata Sabah dan Sarawak mempunyai peluang untuk menentukan kerajaan yang memerintah Putrajaya. Peluang yang terlepas ini muncul lagi dalam Pilihanraya Umum ke-13 dan mungkin peluang yang terakhir untuk rakyat Sabah Sarawak menentukan pemerintah Putrajaya yang benar-benar memenuhi aspirasi Agenda Borneo.

KONSEP PERJUANGAN

UBF merupakan gerakan kumpulan pendesak dan hak-hak sivil dan akan bergabung dengan mana-mana organisasi, parti potitik dan individu yang setuju dengan perjuangan UBF.

FUNGSI:

Memperkasa rakyat Borneo melalui kesedaran terhadap sejarah, politik, hak-hak tanggungjawab dan menanam semangat perjuangan untuk keadilan.

VISI:

Sabah, Sarawak (Borneo) bebas berautonomi politik, demokratik dan mempunyai ekonomi yang progresif.

MISI:

Menghapuskan corak pemerintahan ala penjajah dan mengembalikan hak istimewa dan status Sabah Sarawak sebagai rakan kongsi yang sama taraf dalam Persekutuan Malaysia

MATLAMAT UTAMA:

Mempastikan Perjanjian Malaysia termasuk 20/18 Perkara, syarat, jaminan dan kenyataan dibuat Tunku Abdul Rahman, kandungan laporan IGC dan Suruhanjaya Cobbold dihormati dan dilaksana seperti yang dijelaskan dalam Perkara 8, Perjanjian Malaysia 1963.

MENUNTUT HAK YANG DIJANJIKAN

ITU BUKANLAH MEMBANGKANG

TUJUH (7 )AGENDA BORNEO

AGENDA 1: Menuntut supaya Kerajaan Persekutuan mewujudkan "Mekanisme Pelaksana" untuk menyusuli pematuhan Perjanjian Malaysia 1963 serta memulihkan status Sabah Sarawak sebagai rakan kongsi setaraf dengan Malaya.

• Keluasan Perlis 812 km/persegi, Pitas 1419 km/persegi tapi Perils ada Raja, Menteri Besar 15 orang Adun dan 3 Ahli Parlimen. Pitas hanya ada 1 orang Adun dan berkongsi Ahli Parlimen dengan DUN lain. Dari segi peruntukan YB, Perlis mendapat RM20 Juta setahun, Pitas hanya dapat sekitar RM700,000.

AGENDA 2: Menuntut supaya satu formula untuk agihan yang adil dalam aspek hasil cukai, minyak dan perjawatan.

• Sabah hanya dapat 5% daripada hasil minyak dari bumi Sabah. Secara matematik, negeri-negeri lain yang tidak ada minyak menikmati 9.5% hasil minyak dari Sabah.
• Hampir 80% jawatan pengarah agensi persekutuan di Sabah disandang dari Semenanjung.
• Sebanyak 66,597 jawatan agensi persekutuan di Sabah. 51,879 (78%) diisi dari Semenanjung. Ini menyebabkan kadar pengangguran rakyat Sabah tertinggi di Malaysia. (63%). Ke mana hala tuju rakyat Sabah yang masih sedang belajar sekarang?

AGENDA 3: Menuntut supaya hak-hak peribumi Sabah Sarawak dihormati dan kekal seperti yang termaktub dalam perjanjian dan Perkara 153 Perlembagaan Persekutuan.

• Hampir semua aspek dalam pentadbiran Malaysia mengabaikan hak dan peluang orang asal Sabah Sarawak: Contoh: menafikan hak pemilikan tanah yang diwarisi turun-temurun dan memberikan keistimewaan kepada syarikat-syarikat yang mendapat konsesi khas.
• Peluang dalam konteks pendidikan terutama dalam kursuskursus kompetitif di IPTA, biasiswa, kerjaya yang sangat tipis (hanya sekitar 5 – 10%).

AGENDA 4: Menuntut supaya Dasar Kabotaj (dasar perkapalan) dimansuhkan. Dasar ini menyebabkan impak negatif terhadap ekonomi Sabah sejak 1/1/1980.

• Melalui dasar ini, semua kapal kontena membawa barangan import dari luar negara mesti berlabuh di Pelabuhan Klang dan membayar cukai.
• Kesannya: tempoh masa penghantaran barang yang lama, harga barangan di Sabah mahal, industri perkilangan lembab dan hampir semua hasil mentah dari Sabah terpaksa dihantar ke Semenanjung untuk diproses .
• Fikirkan ! Kenapa harga minyak masak di Sabah mahal berbanding Semenanjung sedangkan Sabah pengeluar sawit utama di Malaysia?
• Fikirkan! Rakyat Sabah menoreh dan menjual getah kepada LIGS. LIGS memproses dlm bentuk SMR dan hantar ke Semenanjung diproses menjadi sarung tangan dan rakyat Sabah beli balik.

AGENDA 5: Menuntut supaya fokus pembangunan ditumpukan kepada Sabah dan Sarawak di samping mengurangkan jurang ekonomi dan digital antara dua wilayah.

• Data kemiskinan tegar dari EPU masih meletakkan Sabah paling ramai miskin tegar di Malaysia. Laporan 11/11/2010 turut meletakkan Sabah termiskin di Malaysia. Ini membuktikan Sabah harus diberi keutamaan dalam pengagihan peruntukan pembangunan. RMK9, Sabah hanya dapat 8.5% daripada RM 200 Bilion. RMK 10 Sabah diberi 4.3% daripada RM 109 Bilion.
• Sepanjang 21,300 km jalan raya di Semenanjung telah diaspal dengan kualiti yang terbaik, sehingga 12 lorong dan bertingkat -tingkat. Di Sabah baru 3,000 km jalan yang diaspal dengan kualiti yang teruk, baru beberapa minggu sudah hancur!
• Royalti minyak Sabah telah membantu KL membina Menara Berkembar Petronas, Lapangan Terbang KL, Litar Formula One, Putrajaya, Membeli 110 kapal kontena MISC, Universiti Teknologi Petronas dan membiayai hampir 30,000 pelajar semenanjung dalam biasiswa Petronas.
• Pada tahun 2010 sahaja Sabah hantar sebanyak RM18 bilion (cukai) dan royalti minyak RM13.7 bilion. Ini bermakna untuk tahun 2010 sahaja, Sabah telah menghantar wang ke KL sebanyak RM31.7 BILLION. Secara puratanya Sabah menghantar wang ke KL setiap tahun tidak kurang daripada RM25 Bilion (Ruj: 1 Billion = RM1000 juta) 
• Sabah pengeluar utama minyak kelapa sawit, getah, koko, kayu balak dan kelapa tetapi masih menjadi negeri paling miskin di Malaysia?

AGENDA 6: Menuntut supaya masalah PTI/Projek IC diselesaikan secara tuntas dan integriti sempadan Sabah Sarawak diperketatkan, termasuklah hukuman yang berat ke atas mereka yang memberikan status kewarganegaraan kepada pendatang tanpa izin.

• Penduduk Sabah sekarang berjumlah 3.23 juta dan daripada jumlah itu, 1.7 juta adalah pendatang tanpa izin (PTI). Jumlah PTI sudah menguasai penduduk tempatan yang hanya berjumlah, 1.5 juta. 
• Bagaimana mereka masuk dengan mudah? Siapa yang memberikan mereka penempatan? Siapa yang memberikan mereka status warganegara? Siapa yang mendaftarkan mereka status sebagai pengundi? 
• Data 1963, tidak wujud bangsa Melayu di Sabah tetapi pada tahun 1970 Melayu berjumlah 18,362 dan tahun 2000 berjumlah 303,500 (kenaikan 1552%). Populasi mereka naik mendadak mengatasi populasi kaum Bajau/ lranun dan Kadazandusun: 
• Sudah menjadi pengetahuan umum bahawa memang wujud "Projek IC yang didalangi oleh beberapa pemimpin UMNO, namun mereka terus menafikan. 
• Kini, masalah PTI sudah semakin kronik. Jumlah mereka bukan sahaja mengatasi penduduk tempatan malah diberikan status warganegara dan mengundi.
• Sedar atau tidak, percaya atau tidak, mahu atau tidak! Kita bakal menjadi minoriti dan pelarian di bumi Sabah.

AGENDA 7: Menuntut supaya kajian semula terhadap kehadiran dan peranan agensi-agensi Persekutuan di Sabah/Sarawak bahkan syarikat-syarikat dari Semenanjung yang mendapat konsesi tanah di Sabah.

• Sabah memiliki kementerian dan jabatan. Sedarkah kita bahawa fungsi setiap kementerian dan jabatan ini semakin dihakis dengan kehadiran pelbagai agensi persekutuan dari KL. Contoh: Kehadiran Felda, Risda, Felcra, LKIM, LIGM dan banyak lagi.
• Hampir 1.4 juta hektar tanah Sabah ditanam dengan kelapa sawit yang mana 80% adalah syarikat dari KL seperti Felda, IJM, IOI, Le Meridien dan banyak lagi.
• Beberapa syarikat dari KL seperti TH turut mendapat konsesi dalam Forest Plantation (penghutanan semula) untuk satu jangkamasa yang sangat lama (mencecah 100 tahun).
• Tanah dan hutan yang. merupakan sumber asasi rakyat Sabah kini menjadi sumber kekayaan syarikat-syarikat dari KL. Penguasaan dan pemilikan dari KL terhadap sumber dari Sabah perlu dihentikan segera!

Sumber: UBF

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I CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE

It is during adversity when one can really make a big difference. But making a difference is not about being a big hero. It is simply about leaving the bathroom a little cleaner going out, than when you came in.

It's easy to make a buck. It's a lot tougher to make a difference.

It's not the will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

Never be afraid to do something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark; professionals built the titanic.

Throughout the centuries there were men who took first steps, down new roads, armed with nothing but their own vision.

To put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must first put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must first cultivate our personal life; we must first set our hearts right.

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I... I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.

We all have ability. The difference is how we use it.

We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the small daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we often cannot foresee.

We must overcome the notion that we must be regular... it robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre.

You're the only one who can make the difference. Whatever your dream is, go for it.

DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER

"Judging a person does not define who they are but it defines who you are"

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you (Matthew 7:1-2) 

Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect and I don't live to be but before you start pointing fingers... make sure you hands are clean! 

Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant. In the end, people should be judged by their actions, since in the end, it was actions that defined everyone. Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are. I intend to judge things for myself; to judge wrongly, I think, is more honorable than not to judge at all.

We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. That mess about judging people by the content of their character and not the color of their skin—that's some bullshit. Nobody has the right to judge anybody else. Period. If you ain't been in my skin, you ain't never gonna understand my character.

“Don't judge a man by his opinions, but what his opinions have made of him.”

You cannot be fair to others without first being fair to yourself. Know that a well-honed sense of justice is a measure of personal experience, and all experience is a measure of self. Know that the highest expression of justice is mercy. Thus, as the supreme judge in your own court, you must have compassion for yourself. Otherwise, cede your gavel.

SILENT VS TALKATIVE

To me there are pros and cons for this. I may have the option to agree or disagree but in reality sometime this is work. 

If I choose to disagree then I must explain the reason. First, if you continue being a silent then there will be no conclusion on your problem, discussion and conversation. 

And, if you continue not to share your opinion to avoid hurting other people then it's your right. However, God give everything for us to use including brand to think and mouth to talk but just because you limited them in some point then everything's turn to abandon. Some people can talk and even can judge but weak of point therefore easily be challenged. 

To me, it's their personality. Talking based on experience without fact is something like sharing story. Everyone can talk and even can explain in detail via past experience but then it's a matter of how your explain or deliver it to others. Just imagine if you're a boss in your company or leader in an organisation. When you talking about your past experience or performance to the audience then you must do it in a very systematic manner; apply the point, relates to the subject and explain the outcome. Make your experience be their guidance and motivation. Accept every question with a valid answer and create conclusion. Let the audience improve their confident level when facing outside's challenger. 

Second, the worse things when someone did not understand what are you talking about. Lets say you are a doctor by profession. Your have the knowledge in medical and determination for the finding of their illness. It is your JOB to explain and not just tell the patient illness and how to cue it. If patients trust you then you will be their personal reference.

NEVER LET YOUR PAST EXPERIENCES HARM YOUR FUTURE

Never let your past experiences harm your future. Your past can’t be altered and your future doesn't deserve the punishment.

Trust me.. And, if you care about other people think, you will always be their prisoner. 

Forget about the past, it’s done. Make yourself a brighter future by focusing on the present..

Nie Kali La.

SOMETIME WHEN WE TOUCH

You ask me if I love you, And I choke on my reply
Id rather hurt you honestly, Than mislead you with a lie
And who am I to judge you, In what you say or do
Im only just beginning, To see the real you

And sometimes when we touch, The honestys too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide, I want to hold you till I die
Till we both break down and cry, I want to hold you till the fear in me subsides

Romance and all it's strategy, Leaves me battling with my pride
But through all the insecurity, Some tenderness survives
Im just another writer, Still trapped within my truth
A hesitant prize fighter, Still trapped within my youth

And sometimes when we touch, The honestys too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide, I want to hold you till I die
Till we both break down and cry, I want to hold you till the fear in me subsides

At times I'd like to break you, And drive you to your knees
At times I'd like to break through, And hold you endlessly
At times I understand you, And I know how hard you try
I watched while love commands you, And Ive watched love pass you by
At times I think were drifters, Still searching for a friend
A brother or a sister, But then the passion flares again

And sometimes when we touch, The honestys too much
And I have to close my eyes and hide, I want to hold ya till I die
Till we both break down and cry, I want to hold you till the fear in me subsides.. Subsides

I DON'T WANA TALK ABOUT IT

I love this ..... Hebat.. 

I can tell by your eyes that you've

probably been crying forever

And the stars in the sky don't mean

nothing to you they're a mirror

I don't wanna talk about it

How you broke my heart

If I stay here just a little bit longer

If I stay here won't you listen to my heart

My heart

If I stand all alone will the shadows

hide the colours of my heart

blue for the tears, black for the night

fears the stars in the sky

don't mean nothing to you they're a mirror

I don't wanna talk about it

How you broke my heart

If I stay here just a little bit longer

If I stay here won't you listen to my heart

My heart... 

TAKE WHAT YOU NEED

Seek the joy in what your gave and not in what your get. This is about me. The more you give the more your get; that's the way love works. BUT, you must remember either it's GOOD or BAD, it's all depend on you and the way how you accept it. Don't be upsets by the results you didn't get with the work you didn't do. 

I don't care you're black, white, straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian, short, tall, fat, skinny, reach or poor what so ever. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. Simple as that. 

One thing, do not covet your ideas. Give away everything you know and more will come back to you. Trust me! Do you remember in the school? Other students preventing from seeing their answers by placing their arm or any object around their exercise book or exam paper. 

Its is same at work, people are secretive with ideas. Always say "don't tell them that, they'll take credit for it". The problem with hoarding is you will end up with living off your reserves. Eventually you become stale. 

If you give away everything you have, you are left with nothing. This forces you look, to be aware, to replenish. Somehow the more you give the more comes back to you. 

Ideas are open knowledge "don't claim ownership". There are not your idea anyway, there're someone else's. There are out there floating by on the either. You just need to put yourself in a frame of mind to pick them up. 

Remember!! God have given your somethings......

PHYSIOTHERAPY, IS THAT GOOD??

Movement plays an important role in people’s lives. Physiotherapists assist people with movement disorders which may have been present from birth (such as cerebral palsy), acquired through accident or injury (such as motor vehicle accident or sporting injuries), or the result of life-changing major events (such as stroke or the development of a disease of the nervous system.)

Physiotherapists can help solve and avoid many of the painful problems that you may encounter throughout life. Whether you’re young or old, active or taking it easy, there’s a good chance you could benefit from physiotherapy at some point.

Or, do you have this experience? Very simple example when patients experience in shoulder dislocation and under-grow physio therapy. 

What a physio can do? Patients should be informed on the right procedure; explaining the stage, the use of ultra sound and the massage treatments. If patients did not given proper explanation then there will be other assumption concluded by patient itself therefore a professional physio should not blame them. 

Patients must also be transparent on their daily exercise and informs their professional physio so that they can advice the right exercise to perform. If the pain even worse after two weeks physio treatment then quickly seek for doctor advice. You may referred to the specialist doctor for further examination on your pain area. If necessary then MRI has to be done to examine what will be the next action to do. Otherwise, surgery will be required if found any tears or damages on the rotator cuff. If nothing then continue with normal physio treatments. 

Patients must understand that 80% - 90% is from their workout and 10% - 20% from physio treatment.

HUMAN RELATION

Human Relations is your influence with people around you with the patterns of lifestyle, attitudes, behavior, feelings, motivation, sharing and giving, etc. In short, different aspects of your personality, making a MAGNETIC YOU! The basic insight into human nature is important and can be categorized as follows:-

Different Character: All possess different kind of character, whether good or bad. This is because of their continuous influence on their surroundings right from the birth to levels of their understanding. All have their ups and downs and so, one has to understand through sympathetic imagination, possess the abilities to feel other’s problems, joys, thrills, sorrows and above all, nature.

Emotionally Sociable: Be kind, caring, thoughtful person. It shows your quality of goodness, friendliness, loving and cooperative self. People see what you show yourself, the genuineness, originality, and eternal outer surface of your heart. Your built up image reflects your mind and your actions speak louder than words.

Concerned Nature: Your concern over feelings of others is always appreciated and is the basic forces for their liking towards you. Criticism should have no stand in one’s life and is raw, disheartening, discouraging and just smudged reaction to let down a person. Criticism is your inferior complex, popping up on surface, an ego to boost your ownself. Love, affection, appreciation in turn, makes you feel important, liked and above all, a best among the rest.

Ideals; Inspirations: These are the qualities that motivate to show the surging potentials within you. They rise your spirits to swing in action and gear for a set of desired goals reaching the attaining heights of superiority and success. Encouragement builds confidence and plays a major role from the start. The conscious within stirs the soul with the ideals and thereby Inspirations generate the will to push ahead the lifetime Karmas for a nonchalant achievement.

Wisdom of Acceptance: Our basic concept of accepting people is "Beware - No blind conviction please" which true in modern times yet, unfortunate attitude misguiding the human mind. Strangers too, are humans with equally a static life with ups and downs turning their moods and attitude. A kind, caring affectionate goodness with sympathetic imagination and ability to feel other’s joy and thrills. A problem builds an acceptance of a person with insights of human behavioral patterns.

Forgiveness: The shaken and strained state of mind with resentment experiences bitterness and frustration. Forgiveness to the guilty relaxes and ease’s the stress and relations. The sympathetic forgiveness, true from the heart brings peace and happiness. The emotional set back turns to normalcy with realization of shame and guilt, gathering up oneself from shattered hopes of despair.

Sharing; Giving: When you squander for yourself, you become a victim of selfish mind but selflessness sharing and giving, in terms of your ideas, time, energy, talent, money, belongings will reach you heights anew with aliveness and joys of living. A luxurious living hurts inside with loneliness and malign feelings but, initiated feelings of sharing and giving will add to peace, joy and prosperity, the true art of living.

Religious Nature: Being an atheist brings out a human in you. Divine contact brings vision for future. Abilities are blossomed with renewed hope, faith and trust. It makes a deeper person with more understandings of humanity. The blurred visibilities are clear as reflections of religious feelings gives strength and courage to face challenges of life.

Communication: The very heart of human relations that bridges gaps towards closeness. Communication can be words, gestures or from the core of the heart. Sorrows, joys, dreams, success, failures and so on are the basic human conversational topics in different forms. Personal feelings are vital exposures and should be shared deeply for a strong bond of relationship. The very absence of communication would leave one alone morose and broken hearted.

True is your Beauty in body and Soul if you understand the Art of living with the basics of Human Relations and then one is able to build a better Personality...

Aramai tii... is all about words...